Actress Ruth Eze
By Our ReporterÂ
Nigerian actress Ruth Eze has said that she would rather be a lesbian than to marry a violent man or hus colleague.
The Asaba based actress stated this in a chat with Naijatimes.
Yes, I will prefer to be a lesbian than being with a violent man.
“It is better to be a lesbian than to go through all these with a man; to go through domestic violence. Anything that is toxic with any human, is very bad. Like just a man, you’d give a common man your whole life, no I can’t do that. I’ve never gone through domestic violence and no man can make me go through that. If I’m dating you and I notice one toxic attitude, I’m out, I quit, I will start dating somebody else in the next few weeks. That’s one thing I love Tiannah Empire for. She keeps changing men as long as it make her happy and that the kind of life, I’m living. I almost married a man. We had done our introduction, engagement and he probably felt because we had done all those things, he started exhibiting some nastiness. Oga, I will dump you right away, you are not the only man in this world.
I know how to run. I don’t care about what will people say. I will dump you and move on to the next relationship.”
Asked what she would you do if she catches her partner pants down cheating, “If I happen to catch my husband cheating, I won’t leave the marriage. My late father told me that men are polygamous in nature but if you are lucky to find that one who will not rub it in your face. If I catch him cheating, it’s okay. We will sit down and talk about it because to be very honest with you, every man in this world cheats even Pastors, Reverend Fathers. My girlfriend used to say, “Ruth, your kind of mind is what is needed to go through this life.” There is no man that is faithful. I have seen a man cheat a day to his wedding day. He was going to wed the following day and they caught him pants down with his girlfriend. I feel it’s their nature and I will not leave a man because he cheats but I will leave a man when I see that you are temperamental, violent or toxic for my energy but if it’s cheating, I will not leave the man.”
She also said she cannot marry her colleague.
because of the way they behave when on set.
She noted that at times, different girls brought food to actors, even the married ones, while they were on set.
“I can never marry a colleague. I can marry a filmmaker, but not an actor. If you see the things they do on set while filming, even the married ones, you wouldn’t want to have anything to do with them. Other girls come to look for them, and some even bring food.
